心中的钥匙

曾听说过， 每个人的心中都有一把钥匙，也就是说， 人的一生中会有属于他的一扇门。如果有一天， 你有机会看到这一扇门，你一定要毫不犹豫地将门打开，因为当你错过了之后，你也许再也找不回那扇门。那你心中的钥匙也就变成一支废铁。虽然这支废铁可以再磨成另一把钥匙， 但是也许你再也找不到门了。还记得潘台成的一段语录“每个人的心，都像上了锁的大门，任你用再粗的铁棒也撬不开。惟有关怀，才能使自己变成一个细腻的锁匙，进入别人的心，了解别人。”

当狗爱上猫

一部时装剧集，可说是有一段动人的爱情故事。特别是男主角罗嘉良要表白时，却得知自己的癌症复发，而且已是末期了，只剩下六个月的人生路。他为了不想让其他人与他一起痛苦，就刻意的避开女主角胡杏儿，送走了父母亲后，留下自己一个人去面对。

他有个疑问，没有结果的爱情真的会有吗？其实爱情不是在乎结果，而是在乎过程，只要可以痛痛快快的爱一次，就算只是留下最美好的回忆，到最后能否在一起，已并不重要了，最重要是曾经拥有过。难道不是吗?

这部戏启发了我要好好珍惜现有的时光，接下来的人生路是个未知数，如果有喜欢的人就要好好珍惜。我也曾经问过自己，难道真心的喜欢一个人也有错吗？难道真心地对她好也有错吗？很希望她愿意给我一次的机会，哪怕是短暂的时光，至少我们肯去尝试到底大家适不适合对方，你觉得呢？结果并不重要，最重要是在一起的过程。如果真的不适合而分开，那么到时也没有遗憾了。希望她给自己一个重生的机会，也希望她肯给我一次机会好好珍惜她。

附注：珍惜眼前人

What My Real Name Means

What My Real Name Means

You are a seeker. You often find yourself restless - and you have a lot of questions about life. You tend to travel often, to fairly random locations. You're most comfortable when you're far away from home. You are quite passionate and easily tempted. Your impulses sometimes get you into trouble. You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals. You are full of energy. You are spirited and boisterous. You are bold and daring. You are willing to do some pretty outrageous things. Your high energy sometimes gets you in trouble. You can have a pretty bad temper at times. You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together. You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life. You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone. Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs. You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out. Success comes rather easily for you... especially in business and academia. Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing. You're a strong person. You are very open. You communicate well, and you connect with other people easily. You are a naturally creative person. Ideas just flow from your mind. A true chameleon, you are many things at different points in your life. You are very adaptable. You are a seeker of knowledge, and you have learned many things in your life. You are also a keeper of knowledge - meaning you don't spill secrets or spread gossip. People sometimes think you're snobby or aloof, but you're just too deep in thought to pay attention to them.

What's" Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

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八月十八日已过，成绩终于也放榜了，有人欢喜有人悲，小鱼儿的心情也不例外，有喜也有悲。等待的时刻，小鱼儿的心情是多么的紧张，泪水也差点挤满了眼袋。虽然这已不是她第一次拿成绩，毕竟已走过了一段漫长的读书生涯，UPSR、PMR、SPM 以及大学生涯。但这一次所要面对的却是不同的，她的目标是要及格，可是她完全没有信心。

小鱼儿的ACCA生涯只能用两个字来形容 —〉“疯狂”。这可能是因为她脱离读书生涯已四年了，脑袋开始生疏了。她开始迷失方向，开始质疑自己当初的决定，到底值不值得牺牲自己的事业来完成ACCA 呢。其实没有所谓值不值得，只要我们认定目标，就朝着那个方向前进，不必有其他顾虑，一切由我来守护。

当知道了成绩的那一刻，小鱼儿终于松了口气。虽然有其中一科不及格，但总算把一直憋着的紧张心情给释放了。塞翁失马，焉知非福，我相信小鱼儿已在这次的考试中吸取了宝贵的经验，下一次的补考对她来说已不成问题了。

虽然小鱼儿口口声声说没有伤心的感觉，但是心情或多或少都会受影响吧。有人说女人是口是心非的动物，不知你认同吗? 我相信小鱼儿的脑海中不断地重复着问自己为什么会不及格，只差四分而已。希望她别因此而跌进低谷，陷入低潮期。在哪里跌倒，就在那里爬起来吧。我会陪着你一起走出低谷。别气馁，小鱼儿。我会永远陪在你身边给予最大的支持。加油吧！！

成绩放榜的前夕

考试成绩终于要放榜了，但考生不是我却是小鱼儿。成绩放榜的时刻一天又一天的逼近，小鱼儿的心情也一天比一天更紧张，担忧的情绪自然而然的衍生出来。

这是自小鱼儿离开大学数年后的第一次考试，紧张的心情总是难免的。等待的那种心情只有当事人才能体会得到。虽然小鱼儿对于这次的考试不抱着很大的信心，不过世事无绝对，未到最后时刻还是有希望的。既然她已尽最大的努力去准备，那我们就以平常心坦然面对吧。

此时此刻的小鱼儿，正在努力的准备来临的年中考试。希望她那等待的心绪不会影响到她温习的进度。小鱼儿啊，在你最需要支持的时候，我无时无刻都会陪在你左右。让我们一起去面对它吧。加油吧！！小鱼儿！！

李宗伟 - 我们的英雄

好样的！李宗伟！大马“一哥”李宗伟创造历史继续保持无懈可击的勇态，在北京奥运会羽球男单半决赛中，以21比18，13比21，21比13 勇挫韩国名将李炫一，进军决赛，不是穿金就是戴银。

同时宗伟也朝着100万令吉奖金向前冲刺！若宗伟一举夺金，他不但收获至少100万令吉奖金而且还获得终身津贴。既使在男单决赛中败北，它至少保住30万令吉奖金。

半决赛这场赛事真是精彩绝伦。在首局中，两人似乎知己知彼，斗得难分难解，比赛中间插的精彩拉锯简直是扣人心弦。幸亏李宗伟技高一筹赢得首局。很可惜，宗伟未能维持勇态，在第二局中失误连连而让李炫一扳回一城。所幸他在决胜局调整状态后，以8分之差成功报到决赛。总括而言，他让大马人民为他而骄傲。

恭喜宗伟，希望他在决赛中继续神勇地击败林丹。全大马人民都会为他打气。加油！！宗伟！！我们会支持你的！！

George Carlin

Found this in my mail box and this is something good to share with others.

Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.

A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

失败的我

忽然间我的心情就像从山渊跌至了低谷，觉得自己真的很失败。这一生的我只能当骑士来保护小鱼儿，知道小鱼儿又心软了、又要原谅王子了，我不禁感到很心酸。骑士的不死精神终于受到了考验。心中不禁想起了很多“为什么”。

为什么小鱼儿总是那么容易的心软？

为什么小鱼儿明知道如果再继续下去，她会很痛苦，她还想去接受呢？

为什么他们明知自己根本不适合对方，但还要继续下去呢？

为什么王子还要死缠烂打的打扰小鱼儿呢？

为什么骑士一直以来都在守护小鱼儿都不能感动她呢？

为什么现实派的小鱼儿会去接受一个不能给她幸福的王子呢？


到底有谁能回答我呢？江山易改，本性难移。希望小鱼儿懂得这个道理吧。好好地再考虑清楚吧。